WST 3015
April 23, 2010
Activism Log 8
Reflection
Although we did not expressly talk about any issues concerning sexuality, I believe this is another issue that is directly affecting the girls of our community. During the "Girls Night" I volunteered at, we had to find a way of entertaining the girls because the equipment for the movie was not working. Someone's lap top was hooked up to a speaker system and we started to play "Freeze Dance Party" with the girls which actually turned into a full fledged dance party eventually. The interesting part was when we were running out of songs to play, a number of the girls yelled out a request to hear "Tick-Tock." This song by Kesha is a song full of inappropriate material for young girls. The song has many references to drinking, stresses an importance of pedicure, phones, and clothing. At one point she sings "Ain't got a care in the world, but got plenty of beer..." Basically, we were shocked to hear such young girls even knowing that this song exists.
Reciprocity
The over-sexual influences girls see in the media greatly effect their development and self-esteem. This Kesha song is just one example of a media influence that puts so much emphasis on boys and drinking. Girls who listen to this enough start to believe that these are the only ways for them to feel like a part of the larger group. It has been found that "the cumulative effect of these images and words urging girls to express themselves only through their bodies and through products is serious and harmful," (Kirk & Okazawa-Rey 236). The girls of this generation are exposed to so many overly-sexual influences in media, music, television, movies, etc. Their ideals end up being stars like Kesha, who's music is aimed more at an older audience. It's not surprising to me that girls of such a young age have heard and liked this song. Since it's on the radio and television, there are many opportunities for them to hear it. I only hope that someone is teaching them that songs like this are written with no regard for real life. Young girls need to understand the difference between reality and the media in order to separate themselves from such negative influences.
Kirk, Gwyn, and Margo Okazawa-Rey. Women's Lives: Multicultural Perspectives. Fifth Edition. Boston: McGraw Hill Higher Education, 2010. Print.